Christian Dating Advisor proudly presents e-Lesson #32:
Most women won't tell this to the men they date... but they want a man that can make decisions.And we're not talking about hard decisions either.
For some reason a lot of men struggle with making decisions on simple things like:
So what do they do... they ask the woman where they want to go for the next date, what do they want to do, what time they want to be picked up... and what does the woman do... they throw it back in the man's court.
Don't fall into this trap... regardless of what you have been told women want men who can make decisions.
We think the reason men can't or don't make these simple decisions is two fold:
1. They think women don't like "decisive" men.
A lot of men think that if they are decisive that women will think they are "bossy" or "pushy" and not taking their opinion into account... this is only somewhat true.
By being decisive you are not being "bossy" or "pushy"... and while you should ask your date's opinion on things... you shouldn't ask their opinion on everything.
2. They don't plan properly.
A lot of the time men want to be decisive but they just "can't" because they don't plan things in advance.
The solution is to do some planning before the date.
Come up with the date idea... then why not come up with a date itinerary for the date.
As far as things like pickup times just pick any reasonable time... if it's not a good time she will tell you.
Well that's it for this lesson, hope you take it to heart.
The next lesson is going to be a very practical and fun one so stay tuned.
Until the next lesson ,
John and Leanne Morris
Your Christian dating coaches